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Vibrating Panties for Long Distance Relationships: 9 Exciting Options

Lolo & Nate | Updated: May 24, 2021

So you’re looking to have some discreet fun with your long distance partner.

Well, you’ve come to the right place!

When it comes to vibrating panties for long distance relationships, there are many styles to choose from that will give you the pleasure and thrill you’re looking for.

To help you narrow down the search, we’ve selected only the best app-connected and body-safe options available.

Are you ready to find your new favorite toy?

vibrating panties for long distance relationships

Our Selection Process: For each device to even be considered they must have Bluetooth and app connectivity. This is what allows you or your long distance partner to control these devices from anywhere in the world.

The Best Remote Control Vibrating Panties for Long Distance Relationships in 2021

1. blueMotion NEX|1 by OhMiBod

blueMotion NEX 1 by OhMiBod

Whether your partner is across the room or across the planet, they’ll be able to use their phone to control the blueMotion NEX|1 by OhMiBod with the OhMiBod Remote App.

When you’re apart, the app has helpful features like in-app chat and photo sharing, so you don’t need to be switching between apps in the middle of the fun. You can also choose from 4 preset vibration patterns or create your own to keep your partner guessing what’s coming next.

For improved discreet play, the second-generation version of the blueMotion NEX|1 is smaller and sleeker with a more powerful motor than the original.

Ready for play right out of the box, the blueMotion NEX|1 includes a “one size fits most” blue lace thong and a satin privacy pouch.

blueMotion NEX|1 Specs

blueMotion NEX 1 Dimensions
  • Materials: Body-safe silicone
  • Total Length: 3.75 inches
  • Total Width: 1.75 inches
  • Charge Time: 3 hrs
  • Usage Time: 1 hr
  • Waterproof: Splashproof

2. Moxie by We-Vibe

Moxie by We-Vibe vibrator and remote control

Do you worry about the vibrator slipping out of place or needing to make constant adjustments? You can remove that worry with Moxie by We-Vibe because it includes a powerful magnet, which helps to secureit in just the right spot.

It’s likely that users will wear Moxie for long periods of time, so to extend the battery life, it will enter sleep mode after 30 minutes with no use. With 2 hours of usage time, you can have sporadic fun throughout the day.

While Moxie can be controlled through the We-Connect App from anywhere in the world, it also includes a remote, making it the perfect accessory when you’re visiting your partner in person.

In addition to a silky storage pouch, Moxie also includes a 2 mL sample of toy-safe lubricant to jumpstart your next adventure.

Moxie Specs

Moxie Dimensions
  • Materials: Body-safe silicone
  • Total Length: 3.62 inches
  • Total Width: 1.41 inches
  • Charge Time: 1.5 hrs
  • Usage Time: 2 hrs
  • Waterproof: Yes

3. Vibease Wearable Vibrator

Vibease Wearable Vibrator and app

Vibease Wearable Vibrator was the world’s first app-controlled vibrator, and it remains one of the best options.

Not only does the app allow your partner to control your vibrator, but it also includes voice and video capability to enhance the fun without switching between apps.

In addition to being able to control it from anywhere with the Vibease App, you can also sync your Vibease with a steamy audiobook. That makes this product almost as much fun when your significant other is busy!

Vibease is also 100% waterproof, so you’ll have no issues with extending playtime with your partner to the bath or shower.

To keep your Vibease discreetly stored at home or in your bag, it comes with a silky pouch, which will also help to keep your Vibease clean and away from other items.

Vibease Specs

Vibease Dimensions
  • Materials: Silicone
  • Total Length: 3.2 inches
  • Total Width: 1.5 inches
  • Charge Time: 2 hrs
  • Usage Time: 3 hrs
  • Waterproof: Yes

4. Lightshow by OhMiBod

Lightshow vibrator by OhMiBod

When your partner is away, it can be hard for them to see what the vibrator is doing – only how it affects you. Now, your SO can enjoy the view even more with Lightshow by OhMiBod.

As your partner adjusts the vibration modes through the OhMiBod app, five LED lights provide feedback to the person watching by pulsating to the vibrations. This can add a whole new layer of excitement, whether you’re together or apart.

The USB charger means it can be used anywhere in the world without the need for adaptors, and, to keep things discreet when you travel to see your partner, Lightshow includes a privacy pouch.

Lightshow Specs

Lightshow by OhMiBod Dimensions
  • Materials: Body-safe ABS plastic
  • Total Length: 3.75 inches
  • Total Width: 1.75 inches
  • Charge Time: 2 hrs
  • Usage Time: 1 hr
  • Waterproof: Splashproof

5. Lush 3 by Lovense

lush 2 wearable vibrator by lovense

If you prefer more than just clitoral stimulation, Lush 3 by Lovense is a wearable vibrator that hits the right spots both inside and out.

With one of the most powerful motors you can find in products like this you definitely get more bang for your buck with Lush 2.

The Lovense Remote App allows your partner to control your Lush 2 from anywhere, but an easily accessible power switch lets you turn the fun on and off when you’re ready. With up to three hours of fun, you could really spice things up by turning it on several times throughout the day.

In addition to being smartphone compatible, the Lovense Remote App works on Mac and PC, opening up your options for distant fun.

Lush 3 Specs

Lush 2 dimensions
  • Materials: Body Safe Silicone
  • Total Length: 7.12 inches
  • Total Width: 1.37 inches
  • Charge Time: 70 minutes
  • Usage Time: 3 hrs
  • Waterproof: Yes

6. OhMiBod’s Esca 2: Powered by Kiiroo

Hand holding Esca 2

For a unique visual experience, the OhMiBod’s Esca 2: Powered by Kiiroo, is a G-spot vibrator with an LED light so your partner can see what’s happening.

If you’re looking for something discreet, Esca 2 is hard to beat. Most of it fits snugly inside you, the light can be turned off, and the motor is whisper quiet.

Not only can Esca 2 be controlled by the OhMiBod Remote App, but it can also be controlled by some other Kiiroo products like Onyx+ and TITAN through the FeelConnect App.

It’s also worth noting that, for those times when your partner isn’t available, Esca 2 can connect with virtual content to make your alone time that much more stimulating.

Esca 2 Specs

Esca 2 Dimensions
  • Materials: Silicone, ABS
  • Total Length: 7.3 inches
  • Total Width: 1.3 inches
  • Charge Time: 1.5 hrs
  • Usage Time: 3 hrs
  • Waterproof: Splashproof

7. Jive by We-Vibe

Jive by We-Vibe mobile app and vibrator

For those who enjoy deep, rumbly vibrations, the Jive by We-Vibe is a wearable vibrator with 10 vibration modes that are sure to curl your toes.

Your partner can control your Jive through the We-Connect App, which also allows you to create custom vibrations and even sync with your voice or music.

A 2-hour usage time means you’re unlikely to run out of battery power, but to make sure there are no surprises, Jive comes with a low-power indicator just in case.

With a silky storage pouch and a 2 mL sample of lubricant, Jive comes with everything you need to start enjoying it right away.

Jive Specs

Jive Dimensions
  • Materials: Silicone
  • Total Length: 3.62 inches
  • Total Width: 2.53 inches
  • Charge Time: 1.5 hrs
  • Usage Time: 2 hrs
  • Waterproof: Yes

8. Lovelife Krush by OhMiBod

Lovelife Krush by OhMiBod vibrator and app

Do you love kegel balls? For kegel balls with a little extra oomph, check out Lovelife Krush by OhMiBod.

This app-connected smart kegel measures the endurance, control, pressure, and grip of your PC muscle. The stronger your PC muscles, the more intense your orgasms will be. Of course, a strong pelvic floor has other benefits too.

There’s a good reason we included these kegel balls on our list, though. They also have vibrations that can be controlled by your partner with the OhMiBod App. Who wouldn’t want a multipurpose item that can be used for both exercise and pleasure?

Lovelife Krush Specs

Lovelife Krush Dimensions
  • Materials: Body-safe silicone
  • Total Length: 7.1 inches
  • Total Width: 1.3 inches
  • Charge Time: 1 hr
  • Usage Time: 4 hrs
  • Waterproof: Yes

9. Bloom by We-Vibe

Bloom by We-Vibe vibrator, power cord and packaging

The best way to strengthen your pelvic floor is by doing kegel exercises with gradually increasing weights. You get that and more with Bloom by We-Vibe.

Bloom doubles as a kegel exerciser and an internal vibrator. It opens up, so you can add increasing weights of 10g, 30g, or 35g as you strengthen your PC muscle.

When your exercises are done and it’s time for fun, your partner can control your Bloom with the We-Connect app. They can choose from one of 10 vibration modes or create their own unique patterns for you to enjoy.

Since Bloom is waterproof, you can take your exercises, or fun, into the bath or shower with you.

Bloom Specs

Bloom Dimensions
  • Materials: Silicone
  • Total Length: 7.06 inches
  • Total Width: 1.3 inches
  • Charge Time: 1.5 hrs
  • Usage Time: 1.5 hrs
  • Waterproof: Yes

The Remote Control Vibrating Panties We Recommend For Long Distance Relationships

When it comes to vibrating panties for long distance couples, there are a few reasons why we couldn’t look past the OhMiBod Esca 2: Powered by Kiiroo.

Esca 2 in box
  • Because it sits inside, rather than on top and has a whisper quiet motor, it’s a super discreet option for having fun in public.
  • Powered by Kiiroo means Esca 2 can connect to and control Kiiroo’s male devices such as the Onyx+ and TITAN. Making it the person option for long distance couples that want to be intimate together, from a distance.
  • You also have access to VR & interactive content giving you more ways to enjoy the Esca 2 than any other device.
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Hi, we are Lolo (Canada) & Nate (Australia) a couple that had to go through all that a long distance relationship has to offer, just like you. With our experience and lessons learned we want to help you keep your long distance relationship as strong as ever and ultimately last the distance!