The Best Long Distance Sex Toys In 2019: 13 Orgasmic Options

Long Distance Sex Toys: 13 Orgasmic Options You Never Thought Were Possible!

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Intimacy is important to the majority of couples. For long distance relationships it can be one of the most difficult parts.

Raise your hand if you have ever:

  • Cried because you just wanted to kiss your partner but couldn't.
  • Exploded because you couldn't feel their body against yours.
  • Punched your pillow because you woke up from a 'dream' about them.

Guilty...? 😀

Thankfully Long Distance Sex Toys, also known as teledildonics, have arrived!

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What is teledildonics?

Teledildonics is the technical term for sex toys that can connect to each other to create 'remote sex'. These devices use haptic feedback, which allow the movements of one device to be communicated to another in the form of tactile sensations. i.e. Moving and putting pressure on one toy will produce the same or similar motions or vibrations in the other.

Pretty cool, right?!

You get to feel as though you are the one pleasuring your partner rather than them pleasuring themselves, even when thousands of miles apart.

We've put together a list of the 13 best options for couples, including options for the LGBTQ+ community. We're proud to support companies who are paving the way for a more inclusive world, and hope you are too.

NOTE FROM LOLO & NATE: Before reviewing the best sex toys for couples in long distance relationships, we want to start with a note on consent.

Being intimate online isn't for everyone. Like any regular sexual relationship, you would not want your partner to pressure you to do things you are not comfortable doing.

So before moving forward, it's important to talk about respecting each others boundaries to make sure you're both on the same page.

Connected Long Distance Sex Toys

Max 2 & Nora by Lovense

max nora long distance sex toys by lovense

Lovense have pioneered long distance sex toys over the past 10 years. They've spent countless hours and funds developing their range of toys, which is why they are one of the top companies in this area.

Their flagship toys for long distance couples are the 6th generation Max 2 and Nora.

To use them intimately together, both toys connect via bluetooth to the Lovense Remote app on either your iOS, Android, PC or Mac devices. You can also message or video call through the app or use another service like Skype. Then the two-way fun starts! 

How do Max 2 and Nora respond to each other?

Max 2​

As you move the Max 2 up and down, the head of the Nora will rotate.

Increasing the speed of your movements will intensify the rotations.

As you insert the Nora, the air pump in the Max 2 will mimic vaginal contractions.

More vigorous movements will increase the intensity of contractions and vibrations. 

Some other cool features include:

  • Intelligent playback: Allows you to record each session and the audio to play back and use the movements at any time in the future.
  • Partner control: If you don't have or want to use both toys at the same time. Your partner can take control of things like the intensity of vibrations and the rhythm through the app.
  • Discreet billing and packaging: No explanation needed here!

Also, both the Max 2 and Nora use body safe materials such as ABS plastic and high quality silicone and come with a one-year warranty.

For more information on the product specifications, or to check prices and availability, click here to visit the Lovense official site.

To note: Lovense do run online promotions from time to time and are usually visible on the store and checkout pages. 

Onyx 2 & Pearl 2 by Kiiroo

onyx 2 and pearl 2 connected sex toys by kiiroo

Kiiroo are another adult toy company that have focused on long distance relationships. Over the past few years they've produced high end products and have also partnered with other companies in the industry.

Similar to the Max 2 and Nora, they have the Pearl 2 and Onyx 2 models.

Using Kiiroo's FeelConnect app, you can link the two toys together through the 'partner connect' feature. How do they work together you ask?

How do Pearl 2 and Onyx 2 respond to each other?

Pearl 2​

As you insert the Pearl 2, the Onyx 2 will stroke and tighten to emulate sex and vaginal contractions.

Increasing the speed will intensify stroking and contractions.

Using the touch pad on the Onyx 2 controls the vibration settings for the Pearl 2.

You can adjust the intensity and rhythm to suit the moment and build up overtime as you play together.

The FeelConnect app also allows you to use these toys with other platforms like video and music, virtual reality, webcams and even games.

This couples set ships in discreet packaging and includes:

  • 1 x Pearl 2 & Onyx 2 (LINK) 
  • 2 x USB charging cables
  • Authenticity cards
  • 2 x Quick-start guides

For more information, head on over to the Kiiroo's official website. You may also qualify for FREE shipping!

Fleshlight Launch & Fuse by Kiiroo

fleshlight launch and fuse connected sex toys by kiiroo

The second of three long distance sex toy offerings from Kiiroo is the Fleshlight Launch and Fuse, which also connect via the FeelConnect app.

It might look intimidating at first, but the Fleshlight Launch packs a lot of power and technology. Consisting of two parts, the Fleshlight, which took the world by storm, and the Launch, Kiiroo's patented hardware, can perform at up to 180 strokes per minute!

To note: The Fleshlight itself (that goes into the Launch) is sold separately from the couples set. But this lets you select from a range of options. 

With dual motors, the Fuse is perfect for those who are after a product that provides both vaginal and clitoral stimulation at the same time.

As Kiiroo puts it:

"Fuse reacts to your body’s natural movements. Slide it in and Feel the vibrations get stronger. Slide it out, and Feel the vibrations weaken. The Clit-Stim provides extra stimulation for mind-blowing pleasure."

How do Fleshlight Launch and Fuse respond to each other?

The Fleshlight Launch has a touch pad on the left hand side that can control the vibration of the Fuse.

Changing the level of vibration and rhythm will determine the intensity and pleasure your partner feels.

Fuse​

As you slide the Fuse in and out, the Fleshlight launch will stroke up and down at the same time.

Adjusting the speed, rhythm and how deep you go will determine the intensity and level of pleasure.

Just like their other connected sex toys, you can also enjoy them individually with virtual reality, webcams and other gaming hardware.

Click here to visit the official Kiiroo website too find if the Fleshlight Launch and Fuse couples set is right your you and your partner.

TITAN & Cliona by Kiiroo

titan and cliona sex toys by kiiroo

The TITAN and Cliona are the third set of long distance toys we've covered from Kiiroo.

While the TITAN looks similar to the Onyx 2, you'll notice the Cliona is much smaller than the other vibrators we've covered and you'd be forgiven for not knowing why.

The Cliona has been created to focus on clitoral massaging and stimulation rather than vaginal. It's also waterproof so you can use it almost anywhere! 

The TITAN on the other hand, has been created for those of us who enjoy stroking with powerful vibrations. It uses NINE bullet vibrators to create an intense experience. 

How do TITAN and Cliona respond to each other?

TITAN​

Using the three touch sensitive pads on the TITAN controls the level of vibration for the Cliona.

Adjust the intensity and rhythm at any time by using pad one, two or three to build up overtime as you play together.

As you rub the Cliona on the outside or insert it the the TITAN's bullet vibrators will mimic the same movements.

Changing your rhythm, speed or how deep you go will adjust the intensity and level of pleasure from the TITAN.

You can use them together with your long distance partner for up to 40 minutes, mostly due to the TITAN's powerful nine bullet vibrators. The Cliona has a usage time of around one hour.

Want to use them separately? No problem, Kiiroo has over 4,000 interactive videos that can be used with both toys.

To get a better idea if the TITAN and Cliona are right for you, check them out here on Kiiroo's official website.

To note: We have shown three couples options from Kiiroo to highlight what's available. But all of them are fully compatible with each other, meaning you can mix and match to get the best set for your needs!

REALM: Reina & Rey by We-Vibe

realm couples sex toys reina and rey by we vibe

The newest sex toys for long distance relationships to hit the market are the Reina and Rey devices from We-Vibe.

They have been at the forefront of connected toy technology since launching in 2008. This is their first vibrator and stroker combination under the REALM brand, which launched in 2019.

How do Reina and Rey respond to each other?

Reina and Rey connect via We-Vibe's We-Connect app. Once synced to interactive mode, you can choose one-way or two-way connection.

  • One-way: You select one of the devices to be the 'leader', which will control the movements felt by both devices.
  • Two-way: The movements of your device is controlled by your partners device and vice-versa.

The app also has secure voice, video and chat functionality so you don't have to use multiple platforms at once.

Reina​

As you slide Reina in and out, Rey will mimic the movements by stroking up and down at the same time.

Using Reina with different speeds and rhythm will change the intensity and placement of Rey's strokes.

Rey​

As you stroke the Rey up and down, the sensors will activate Reina's vibrating motors and mimic the movements.

Adjusting the speed and timing of your stroke will then adjust Reina's vibrating intensity.

We-Vibe's REALM products are similar to those from Lovense and Kiiroo in that they also work on their own with interactive content.

Other reasons why you should consider Reina and Rey:

  • Two-year warranty: where other companies in this area usually offer only one year warranties.
  • Three hours run-time: For both devices. Other products usually range between 40 to 90 minutes of run-time.

Sync & Verge by We-Vibe

we vibe sync and verge sex toys

Another option from the team at We-Vibe is the Sync vibrator and Verge prostate massager.

The We-Vibe Sync is a unique G-spot and clitoral vibrator. It also has two flex points which will allow you to adjust the fit for your body type so it hits the right spot every time.

As we mentioned above the Verge is a prostate massager which is worn at the base around the shaft and testicles so that the arm can stimulate the perineum.

To note: These two devices don't connect directly to each other. I.e. The movements of one device won't be mimicked by the other. We have included them as an option for long distance couples because both can be controlled within the We-Connect app at the same time. 

Why We Like The We-Connect App

The team over at We-Vibe have created a really cool experience when it comes to using their devices through the app. The features are easy to use and navigate plus you don't need to use another app or device to chat. We-Connect has secure in-app voice, chat and video ready to go!

Here are some of the features we like:

  • Multiple vibration modes: Choose modes like pulse, wave, echo and bounce.
  • Manual modes: Make a vibration that's completely unique.
  • Playlists: Records duration and intensity that you can save and use over and over.
  • Adjustable intensity: A simple 'pinch' with two fingers can change the tempo.
  • Beat mode: Create vibrations and rhythms using music on your phone (Sync only).

Click play on the video below to learn more about how you can share control with your partner through the We-Connect app.

If you're not 'turned on' by the devices that mimic each other, then we definitely recommend the We-Vibe Sync and Verge.

For more information on how you can use them together, check out the We-Vibe official website.

LGBTQ+ Inclusive Long Distance Sex Toys

same sex couples long distance toys

In this day and age it's a necessity that companies are lgbtq+ inclusive.

We're really happy that companies like Lovense, Kiiroo and We-Vibe don't limit their long distance toys just to heterosexual couples.

We are proud to support companies that also support the lgbtq+ community.

Max 2 Couples Set by Lovense

max 2 mens couples set by lovense

How do the Max 2's respond to each other?

As you stroke the Max 2 up and down, the other will contract to put pressure on the shaft. Increasing the speed of stroking will also speed up the contractions.

Vibration and contraction settings can be played with through the Lovense Remote App.

Vibration Settings:

  • Low, Medium & High
  • Pulse, Wave, Fireworks & Earthquake

Contraction Settings:

  • Subtle, Mild & Deep

Important Max 2 Specs:

  • Materials: Body safe ABS / Skin-like TPE
  • Usage time: 95 minutes (level 3) to 215 minutes (level 1)
  • Charging time: 100 minutes
  • Waterproof: Splashproof
  • Warranty: 1 Year

To purchase multiple Max 2's you can select the quantity at checkout. Visit their official website for more details and to see if the Max 2 is right for you and your partner. 

Nora Couples Set by Lovense

nora female sex toy couple set by lovense

How do the Nora's respond to each other?

As you insert and rub one Nora the head of the other will rotate to mimic the same movements.

Vibration and head rotation settings can be controlled using the Nora or through the Lovense Remote App.

Vibration Settings:

  • Low, Medium & High
  • Pulse, Wave, Fireworks & Earthquake

Rotation Settings:

  • Slow, Medium & Fast

Important Nora Specs:

  • Materials: Body safe silicone
  • Usage time: 190 minutes (level 3) to 245 minutes (level 1)
  • Charging time: 150 minutes
  • Waterproof: Splashproof
  • Warranty: 1 Year

Similar to the Max 2. To purchase multiple Nora's can be done by selecting the quantity at checkout. Visit their official website for more details on specs, cleaning and their recommended lubricant.

Onyx 2 Couples Set by Kiiroo

onyx 2 male couples set by kiiroo

How do the Onyx 2's respond to each other?

The Onyx 2 has 10 contracting rings that simulate oral, vaginal or anal sex and can reach 140 strokes per minute.

Using the touch pad you can adjust the vibration intensity and stroke speed of both devices.

Important Onyx 2 Specs:

Pearl 2 & Fuse by Kiiroo

pearl 2 and fuse female couples set by kiiroo

How do the Fuse and Pearl 2 respond to each other?

Kiiroo is the first to offer connectivity between two different vibrator and massager models.

Both the Fuse and Pearl 2 have Touch-Sensitive Skin technology. Pushing one device deeper will increase the intensity of vibrations in the other, pull it out and the sensation will become softer.

They also have touch pads to adjust vibrations.

Important Fuse Specs:

  • Materials: ABS, Body safe silicone
  • Colors: Black, Pink
  • Usage time: 60 minutes
  • Charging time: 120 minutes
  • Warranty: 1 Year

Important Pearl 2 Specs:

  • Materials: ABS, Body safe silicone
  • Colors: Black, Purple
  • Usage time: 60 minutes
  • Charging time: 120 minutes
  • Warranty: 1 Year

To note: Just like the male/female connected Kiiroo devices highlighted earlier. Their vibrators and massagers are also fully compatible with each other, so you can mix and match to get the best for both of your needs!

Pearl 2​

Fuse​

Cliora​

Esca 2​

Rey Couples Set by We-Vibe

rey couples sex toys set

How do the Rey's respond to each other?

The Rey's touch pad allows you to control and adjust you and your partner's experience with four stroking patterns, while also playing with different rhythms and intensities.

Rey can reach up to 140 strokes per minute, giving you a wide range of choice when it comes creating a unique experience.

Important Rey Specs:

Reina Couples Set by We-Vibe

reina couples sex toy set

How do the Reina's respond to each other?

Using two Reinas will mirror each others movements, touches and vibration intensity.

There are five different sensors within the Reina at different depths along the length of the device. Moving the device in and out will adjust the vibrations and movements at the same depths of the other paired Reina. 

You can also choose to play with your partner's vibration modes:

  • Vibrate, pulse, wave, cha cha, tease, ramp, tempo, massage, step & heartbeat.

Important Reina Specs:

  • Materials: Body safe silicone (no BPA or latex)
  • Usage time: 180 minutes
  • Charging time: 120 minutes
  • Warranty: 2 Year

Click here to visit We-Vibe's official website and find out more about the Reina. Don't forget to check out the visual view of the different vibration modes!

Bonus Long Distance Sex Toys

Clone-a-Willy

clone a willy sex toy mould kit

What some might call a gag-gift, the Clone-A-Willy kit is worth including as a sex toy for long distance relationships.

As the name suggests, this is a molding kit that will produce an exact replica of any penis and does so with an impressive level of accuracy.

The process isn't the simplest in the world and involves carefully reading the instructions to make sure it's done correctly.

It also comes with a little vibrator you insert into the bottom of the mold.

Not a fan of skin tone colors? No problem! There are pink, green and blue glow in the dark options available.

If it's not for you, no problem, but it's definitely worth a couple of minutes of your time to check out the reviews on Amazon.

What To Know Before Buying Long Distance Sex Toys

Sizing

Men

For stroking devices, it's important to make sure the length and girth of the product won't be too small or large.

Know your measurements to make sure you get a comfortable and pleasurable fit.

Women

For women, sizing can be even more challenging

Using ur fingers and a flexible tape measure can help give you an idea of what size will create a pleasurable experience.

Then align this with similarly sized devices.

Allergies

Sexual organs are very sensitive and you want to make sure you won't have an adverse reaction to what you're putting on or into your body. 

You do the same for food and makeup right? Adult toys should be no different.

Some toys use Latex, which is a common allergy. A study in the Journal of Occupational Health 'Current prevalence rate of latex allergy: Why it remains a problem?' found that up to 4.3% of the general population are allergic to latex. 

Other materials to look out for include jelly, PVC and vinyl. They contain phthalates, which is usually found in cheaper products, that helps bind and make plastic more flexible.

To note: All long distance toys we've covered DO NOT use latex, jelly, PVC or vinyl.

Stimulation

Simply put, what gets you off? There are many types of devices that focus on certain parts of the body and stimulate in different ways.

For women think about clitoral stimulation, internal stimulation, g-spot stimulation or a combination of these.

For men, think about stimulation from stroking, stimulation from pressure or erogenous zone stimulation by the prostate or perineum.

Make sure you take the time to figure out what works for you, so you and your partner get the maximum amount of pleasure. 

Cleaning

It may seem like a chore that's far from your mind after the deed is done but cleaning your device after use, and even before, is really important.

If you buy from a reputable company, just like Lovense, Kiiroo and We-Vibe, they will include cleaning guides with their products or online.

Here are some key points to follow:

  • Ensure toys are clean before use.
  • Anti-bacterial wipes will help to sanitize them.
  • Read the instructions before using any cleaners.
  • Rinse thoroughly after every use.

Our Favorite Long Distance Sex Toys

We are very happy to include all of the products above because they are from companies that are directly supporting couples in long distance relationships. But to pick our favorite, we recommend the line of long distance toys from the awesome team at Kiiroo.

kiiroo long distance sex toys

They have been creating high quality products since starting in 2013 and have partnered with other amazing companies to continue building the best products available.

Kiiroo has the largest range of connected sex toys and are hard to beat when it comes to technology and adaptability.

  • Their strokers like the Onyx 2 and Fleshlight Launch have completely automatic modes and thier vibrators are packed with powerful sensors. 

While they do cost a little more, the fact all of their devices can connect and be controlled by each other giving you so much choice, means you'll find exactly what you need.

Let's not forget our LGBTQ+ friends who can use two male or female style toys together.

To find out more about Kiiroo, their story and their range of long distance sex toys, head on over to their official site.

Now It's Your Turn!

Before we sign off, we want to mention consent again. Make sure you talk with your partner to find out what you're both comfortable with. Respecting each others boundaries can only strengthen the bond and trust between you.

Which one of these great devices do you think you'd enjoy the most? Let us know what you think and also if you have any questions about LDR sex toys. ​

We hope this guide gives you some great ideas on how to keep that intimacy alive when you're apart.

Lolo & Nate
 

Hi, we are Lolo (Canada) & Nate (Australia) a couple that had to go through all that a long distance relationship has to offer, just like you. With our experience and lessons learned we want to help you keep your long distance relationship as strong as ever and ultimately last the distance!

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